This is a guest post by Agnes Hollyfield. A very brief info about her is presented here below, if you need more, please, let me know, I’ll try to get you in touch…

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I have a love-hate relationship with Facebook. I suspect I am not alone. I cannot remember a time before sites like Facebook. I started my account when I was still in college which dates me. To be sure, there are many positive aspects to having a Facebook presence including the ability to:
- Keep up with friends
- Learn new things
- Share items of interest
- Find interesting people and organizations to follow
- Engage in conversations
- Play games, enter contests and find special offers or coupons
- Keep up with family members who live far away
Today, because of Facebook, I am able to see how people I used to know are doing. It is pleasant to see their successes. I follow some people who are facing serious challenges, and Facebook gives me a way to let them know I am tagging along for the ride.
If Facebook had been around when I graduated high school and college, I would have had the opportunity to keep up with the people I knew much more easily. The same is true of friends I had when I lived in other places. These people are lost to me, but that does not have to happen again if I move in the future. The people I know now are my friends, and I can take them with me wherever I go.
Facebook also presents serious concerns including:
- Addiction
- Leaving posts that create problems
- Getting into verbal altercations
- Revealing personal information unintentionally
- Posting something you end up regretting years later
- Being out there for the world to see including future potential employers and friends
The last two are my greatest concern. There are many reasons why this is true. Many people start their Facebook accounts when they are teenagers. These children post things they may come to regret as they grow up. They will grow up, but Facebook will be there forever.
I have some serious issues with the Facebook business model including:
- There is no way to contact them
- They change things and do not tell users
- The website is not particularly user friendly
- They have weird requirements, but they do not explain them
- They can clobber an account without warning
- Users are at the mercy of Facebook
- There is no Dislike button
It is the last one on the list that gives me the most heartburn. YouTube has a Thumbs Down (Dislike) button. Why can’t Facebook? There are a lot of things I dislike, and I would appreciate having a way to express my opinion. If there is a business online that has been nasty to me, I want a way to let them know. It does not seem fair to not have a Dislike button. It makes things lopsided. Someone may have 200+ Likes but, if a Dislike button existed, they might have garnered 600+ Dislikes. Without a way to express a negative opinion, the number of Likes is relatively meaningless.
I think I know why Facebook does not offer a Dislike button. If they did, they would have to have a presence of their own that included the opportunity to Dislike them. I think they are afraid of what would happen. After all, as I said, it is a love-hate relationship.
Agnes Hollyfield is an online instructor with The College City. She is a social media junkie, but she does not let it run her life. She enjoys keeping up with friends and family, but she really wants a Dislike button.
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